Friday, June 27, 2025

June Summer Vibes

When June came, Matthew finally got some paid time off! We have been waiting and waiting for some extra time with him, or even a Saturday, so we were all so excited! Of course, the first day he had off, I had a dentist appointment. He watched the boys and I drove down to Highlands Ranch. The dentist numbed me for a crown and started to dig through the crack in my tooth. He was shocked to find it wasn't very deep and determined he could fill it like a cavity and we could avoid the crown! It was a miracle! It could have been over $1k, but he chose to change course and it was only a couple hundred. I felt very blessed! I celebrated my savings by treating myself to a smoothie because I needed some protein and calories, but was so numb I couldn't eat anything. And, right next to the smoothie shop was a donut shop. I got Matthew and I some specialty donuts that were really yummy! 

Donuts - soooo yummy!

June 3rd was Blaylock Germany Day! It's a self-determined holiday based on the day we went to Germany in 2024. Matthew had the day off and we had a great time! We did start the day with a lot of cleaning, which isn't how we spent our time in Germany. We didn't have to clean because hotel housekeeping mostly took care of that. We had German pancakes for breakfast, then went swimming at the rec center. It was a cold, rainy day, which helped us really feel like we were in Germany again. The boys LOVED swimming! Jay wanted to explore everywhere and had such a fun time on the lilypads with Matthew. Hugh loved the water table and the little slide. We had bratwurst for dinner with pommes (aka fries). We still have a few chocolate bars we've been saving, so we opened a couple of those up after dinner while we played Harry Potter. It was the one game we played while we were in Germany and it was fun to pull out again! We spent the day reminiscing and thinking about how one year ago we walked into the tiniest apartment I thought existed for a family of four and we had no idea where to shop or how we'd feed our little family. If someone had offered me a flight back that night after we arrived, I think I would have been tempted to take it! However, it was a beautiful, unforgettable, and amazing experience! I am glad I didn't get offered a flight back, and I am so glad we got the summer together as a family! Unfortunately, I don't have any pictures, which is a total bummer!

After Matthew went back to work, we had Katey, Kade, Abby, and Hope over for a sleepover and playtime. The big girls were at camp, so the littles got to come "camp" at my house! We spent our time at parks and playing and enjoying being with each other. Jay still had his therapies and the other kids did really well recognizing Jay was working on certain skills while they were here. 

Kade, Abby, Jay, Hope, and Hugh all checking out the water

Kade showing Jay some fun creation!

On Sunday, June 8th, I spoke in Stake Conference General Session. We were later than we hoped, so we were sitting in the gym. I started to get nervous that I'd have to make a dash for the podium when they called my name, so I made my way up during the opening hymn. I was certain I'd be speaking in the first half, as President Leavitt and I discussed I'd probably need to help Matthew with the boys. We are blessed to have the Dahls, so eager and willing to help us. They sat by Matthew, and it was a good thing! I ended up not speaking until right before the Stake President at the end of the session. It was a nice way to experience Stake Conference, with no kiddos to worry about and in a soft seat. I spoke on Asking, Seeking, and Knocking, or revelation. I will share my main analogy here as it's what most people commented on. 

When I walk up to an unknown (or even known) house, this is how our family usually reacts…Sometimes we ding dong ditch, so we ring and run. Me, I’ll knock once, then likely leave. Matthew, he’ll knock and ring the doorbell and wait twice as long as me. My boys, they will knock and ring and even try the handle before giving up. 

What does it mean to spiritually knock? 

Elder Camargo, “To knock is to act in faith. When we actively follow Him, the Lord opens the way before us. There is a beautiful hymn that teaches us to “wake up and do something more than dream of [our] mansion above. Doing good is a pleasure, a joy beyond measure, a blessing of duty and love.”

When you knock spiritually…are you ringing and running, knocking and leaving, ringing and knocking and waiting a little bit, or are you staying at that door, knocking and ringing and trying the handle until someone answers! The beautiful promise is that God will ALWAYS answer, He is ALWAYS there. We may have to wait a lonnnnngg time, but He will always answer. 

I was grateful to have my talk over, and had to immediately jump into lesson prep for the following Sunday's lesson. 

It seems we've always got some sort of doctor appointment lined up, and June was Audiology testing for Jay. Due to speech delays, they wanted to make sure he wasn't missing any sounds. He did very well with the test, but his attention didn't quite last as long as they needed. They are still missing a couple sounds to verify he can hear them, but overall they are unconcerned. I was relieved to know everything seems good, and we'll go back in a couple months to hopefully get those final sounds checked. I was grateful for Breeanne who watched Hugh so I could take Jay alone. 

Jay was in a sound-proof room, and I watched from out here. He did so well! 

Summer feels more like summer when you can hit the splashpad with sisters. Katey and Lindsay and I went to a splashpad in Longmont and Jay had a great time! Having Shelby there saved me, and allowed me to actually have the chance to sit and visit while my kids played. This NEVER has happened to me before and it was a beautiful gift. Shelby came with us again to a new splashpad in Berthoud where Lindsay joined us and we had another awesome day together! 

Jay and Hugh loving their towels after playing in the splashpad. 

Hugh, Jay, and Shelby

Hugh and Jay climbing at the park in Berthoud, which was right next to the splashpad

Hugh and Roxy riding together!

Roxy taking Hugh for a spin

Now it was Hugh's turn to give Roxy a ride! Surprisingly, he was strong enough to move it!

Projects are in full swing and I finally finished my dining room table! I love the way it turned out and it's soooooo nice and beautiful. I am grateful I got the bench from the Bracy's table and redid it with my table. I sold the Bracy's table and made back what I spent on my refinishing of my table. It isn't perfect, and it already has new dents and scratches, but I am truly enjoying it! I also fixed our screen on our front door with some really special sewing skills. 

Reminder of the BEFORE picture of the table 

And, AFTER!

Needle and thread, a trick to save hundreds on a new storm door. 

I've been starting to walk with some women in my ward in the morning at 6am. We meet at different houses and walk for about an hour. It's been a great way to start the morning and Jay usually comes along. Matthew's been kind enough to adjust his morning schedule a little bit to allow me to do it. Hugh is usually always still alseep, so it gives Matthew time to himself in the morning if Jay comes along with me. Sometimes, it's still just Jay and I and I love those walks too. 

Jay and I on our morning walk

We were able to do a session at the Fort Collins temple, and happened to schedule it the same time as Katey and Jason! It was fun to be in the temple with them and we were so grateful for Betty Jane watching our boys. They loved their time at Jack and Lindsay's house and we weren't worried about them at all while we were gone. The peace from the temple is a gift, and this time I felt the gift of perspective come long with our visit as well. Matthew had to work the rest of the Saturday to make up for it, but it was worth it to be in the House of the Lord. 

Father's Day was a wonderful day! I did make crepes for Matthew on Saturday morning, and they were so yummy! I was all ready to go to the temple, woke up early to do crepes before our session, and right as the whipping cream was about done, I lost focus and the beaters came out of the bowl and whipped whipped cream EVERYWHERE! I had to change clothes, wash off counters, appliances, etc. It was a disaster! I should have taken a picture because I can now laugh about it, while in the moment it was only frustrating. Celebrating Matthew was fun and simple, as he is easy to please. We gave him a fun American themed tie and tie organization hangers. I also got him some flip flops, but those were given early as we walked into the house after purchasing them and Hugh immediately told Matthew that we got him sandals! Now I know I cannnot trust Hugh with a secret! 

Jay learned to use the chopper for strawberries and did an awesome job cutting them! 

He was so pleased to help. He is my little helper!

Coloring on Dad's gift for Father's Day

Can you see how much Jay loves his Dad? It's the sweetest thing.

We didn't get Grandma and Grandpa on Father's Day, but they came up the day afterwards. We loved having them and the boys immediately got them to sit down on the couches and read books and play with them. Grandpa took Jay in his car to get dinner, and Jay loved it! We had delicious In N' Out burgers and enjoyed dinner at home with some extra fruit and delicious cookies from Grandma. Their visits always go too fast, and it was sad to see them go. 

One of our last hoorah's of June was the KMPG family picnic. We delayed going to the cabin one day so we could attend the picnic and we are glad we went. The boys got to see some magic tricks and they thought the balloon animals were very fun! They LOVED the playground and could do so much more than the last time we were there. I am amazed at their bravery and it's fun to see how much their skills improve over the years! The best part about this picnic is the raffle. The partners all donate different items and last time we won Broncos tickets. This year, we won tickets to the Broadway production of the Lion King! Woohoo! We are excited and it will probably be our first date after baby boy comes. 

Hugh and Jay climbing on the huge bug

Jay, mastering the rock wall 

Hugh learned to walk across the bridge without his feet going through the holes, impressive.

Hugh loved his mouse!

Jay of course wanted to help the catering company clean up all their tents, and they were kind enough to let him.

Jay's animal was an elephant

Other random happenings and pictures are below with short synopsis. It's so hard to capture everything, and pictures are more fun anyways! 

Jay learned how to spy on the neighbors

My peonies are beautiful!

Flynn Nead, Milo Nead, Hugh, and Jay - at our BBQ with the Elders Quorum Presidency

Hugh, Jay, and Shelby pretending at the park

Hugh and Jay driving their cars while eating pizza for dinner

Hugh went through a couple weeks of waking way too early, and this is how he ended lunch!

This was from a small area of carpet I cleaned and a little rug, after Hugh got a blood nose. Crazy how dirty our floors are. 

Garden is transplanted and my seeds are sprouting! So exciting!

Jay making a tunnel for Hugh, so sweet. 

Our other neighbor was mowing the lawn, the boys wanted to watch and I thought their step stools were quite innovative!

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Cabin Trip - June 2025

We've been looking forward to going to the cabin all summer long! We almost went Memorial Day, but decided to wait and the time finally came over the Juneteenth weekend. We had a shorter trip than we wanted, but it was still so nice and beautiful in the mountains! We left early Thursday, June 19th and came home the following Monday. Thursday we had bad traffic through the mountains. We took several reroutes and eventually made it to the cabin. Unfortunately, Katey and Jason and Jack and Lindsay were behind us by about an hour and their drives took even longer. We had to make one quick potty stop on our drive, but other than that it was smooth sailing. The boys loved the big tunnels and enjoyed putting their hands up in the sky and hollering the whole way through. Katey and Jason were the last to arrive and they had all the food in their car, so we had a late lunch. Everyone was eating around the tables when Oma and Papa arrived. A few weeks before our trip, I mentioned to Papa we were going to the cabin and they should just extend their trip to Idaho and come by the cabin. I was very surprised when they said yes! I could get used to Papa being retired, it gives him no excuses to not join the fun! Papa hurt his back along their journey, so it was sad to see him mostly resting while at the cabin instead of enjoying everything like he normally would have. Back to the story, Matthew and I were the only ones who knew they were coming. Needless to say, everyone was so surprised! There were squeals from the grandkids and hugs all around! We had 18 people at the cabin, and it was basically Bryce Reunion 1.0. 

This was the tunnel on the return trip, but it was the same on the way there!

Meals is when we really felt squishy, you can't see our second table that was set up just to the right of this one.

Everyday we went down to the lake for several hours. Jay and Hugh loved getting life jackets on and hopping onto whatever boat was available. I most often went out on the paddle board, but loved the time I got in the canoe and a couple kayak rides. The cousins all loved the lake, too! They all mastered their own boats and got proficient at docking and un-docking themselves. One morning, Roxy and Tia decided they were going to jump into the lake. They got their life jackets on, and hopped in! It was COLD, but they acted like it was just a bit chilly. Jay watched them, and with curiosity kept touching the water. He then told me he wanted to get in. I helped him take his clothes off and returned his lifejacket. I didn't think he'd actually get in once he touched the water, but I was wrong! That brave little boy walked right up to the edge of the big rock and jumped! You could tell the cold water was shocking for him and he immediately wanted out. He thought about jumping in again the next day, but ultimately decided not to. Jack's kids are set on the tradition that he jumps in, so it was exciting when he finally did. After he was wet, we went up to Morton Lake and he and Roxy jumped in there too. The waded across to a big rock in that lake a few years ago and wanted to check it out again. It was much deeper this time! I think Allen and Kylee also jumped into the lake, and everyone who did it thought it was a big win. 

We got the lake to ourselves for a couple hours before the rest of the family arrived. See the action shot of Hugh throwing in his sock?

First trip out on the boat!

Everyone visiting the lake for the first time and checking it out

Jay LOVED his extra time with Dad this trip

3 men in a boat! Hugh, Matthew, and Jay

Hugh loved playing with the oars, and really wanted his own whenever we went out on the boats

Hugh and I on the kayak

Patiently waiting for a turn!

Matthew, Me, Jay, and Hugh on the bank

Jack and Roxy on the rock at Morton Lake

Proud little lake swimmers, Roxy and Jack

Friday night when everyone was there, we played Buzzword and Catchphrase. We also adjusted Catchphrase to being able to only describe clues in one syllable words, which made us all laugh even more. We had one movie night and enjoyed lots of visiting and catching up. 

We have so many fun toys at the cabin, we made the most of them! Jack rigged the fishing poles with twigs so all the kids pretended to fish whenever they could. Hugh especially loved carrying his fishing pole around. We played with tons of bubbles and spent the majority of the day outside. We played horseshoes and tried out a new archery game Grandpa purchased recently. We did a little bit of archery, and the boys fixed the tire on the trailer. We threw countless rocks into the lakes and enjoyed our evening walks after dinner. Time on the patio during the afternoons was also a major highlight.

Roxy and Tia learning about the Easy Bake 

Abby and Hope working on their archery skills, Jay and Matthew spying from the fort

Jay mostly liked to stick them in, instead of throwing. 100% success rate, can you blame him?

Hugh with his absolute favorite bubble gun!

Kade, Jay, and Hugh with Matthew fishing on the bridge during one of our evening walks. 

Jack and Papa enjoying a relaxing afternoon!

Saturday we increased Jay's dosage on his medicine for ADHD and it went south quickly. He was almost lethargic for most of the day and was constantly requesting to go to bed. We tried it over a couple days and he continued to whine, complain, and emotionally lose it throughout the day. It was so sad to see how it impacted him! We're on the hunt for the right medicine and this first round taught us that it will take more seeking, praying, and trials to find the right one. I was hoping we'd be successful the first time, but not quite. 

Oma and Papa were the only ones who stayed with us through Sunday and Monday. We enjoyed church in Frisco and the drive through the canyon is so beautiful during the summer! And, it was much less stressful than our winter journey to church. Our Sunday afternoon was quiet. I went onto the porch while the boys were sleeping and just sat there in the peaceful, fresh mountain air. Peaceful moments are rare in life right now, so it was a gift to have a little bit in the afternoon. We enjoyed a delicious dinner together and time to catch up with Oma and Papa. Oma and I went on a walk after dinner and when Hugh and Jay were going to bed. We walked to a part of the club I'd never been to. We should have taken the map, as it was close to sunset, but we did make it back okay. We made a big loop into new territory and it was so fun to see more cabins and lakes. 

Hugh fishing!

Hugh and Oma casting out their lines on our Sunday walk

Hugh, Jay, and Oma playing games in the morning

Monday came too quickly, but we cleaned up and headed out late morning. Jay was more than happy to help with all the loading of luggage as well as vacuuming and anything else that needed to be done. We were grateful for Oma and Papa's help getting all the last minute clean up items taken care of as well. We got stopped on the 70 in construction on the way home and had to sit for about 20 minutes or more. In that time, Hugh had to go potty, so we did what we could only do and got him out of the car and let him go on the road right there. He was a champ and did it! Thankfully we made it through and stopped in Arvada at Costco. We got what we needed, plus some fun samples, and enjoyed our lunch at the cafĂ©. The boys loved watching the food be made and we were also grateful to get back in the car and head home. It's always nice to come home after vacation! We immediately started laundry and unpacked all we could while the boys were napping. I almost cried when I say several plants in my garden had died while we were gone, but have come to realize it just sometimes happens and it's okay. We'll still have a lot to harvest and it will be wonderful.  

This was my little sprouting garden before we left

We loved having a weekend with everyone at the cabin! Jack and Katey and their families have never been together so it was fun to see all the cousins get to enjoy it together! There's something healing about being in the mountains and without cell service. The break was much needed, although sometimes vacationing with kids doesn't feel like much of a break. Matthew did wake up with Jay every morning which allowed me to get so much more sleep than usual! It was amazing! We're so glad we got to go and feel blessed Grandma and Grandpa let us use the cabin. 

We spotted a moose! This one happened to be sent from Arizona, so it traveled a long way to see the cabin, thanks to Hank.